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It is a very normal experience for practitioners to be sensitive towards their own emotions as well as the emotions of the people around them. During my initial stage of practicing deliberate attraction I am extremely sensitive to my emotion and the emotion of others. When one embarks on the journey of deliberate attraction, their awareness level will be higher then before thus enabling one to be aware of more emotional information then before. Before the practice one will just react towards the emotion of others and also their own emotion. If someone or some event makes a person feel happy then he will react by laughing and then spreading this good vibes to others around him. Now if some one or some event makes him feel unhappy then his day will be gone and he will take out his negative vibes machine gun and start shooting anyone that is in his path! You better stay away from him.

When you are able to aware your emotions and feelings, you have a better hand to manage your reaction towards both your emotions and your feelings. The reason for impulse reaction towards emotions and feelings is the incapability of the conscious mind to detect it; thus unable to manage it or not able to handle it even though are able to detect it. At that point the subconscious mind is in charge and that is your habit. The subconscious mind won’t know what is good or bad to you. It just executes a set of familiar reaction base on the emotion and feeling that you normal do.

Some habits are good and some are not so good. To deliberately attract the things that you want you have to have more good attractive habits and less of the habits that are blocking you towards your goals. Calmness of mind and self awareness is the first steps towards improving your habits. When a river is muddy and violent we can’t see what is beneath. A still and clear river will review the fishes, rocks and everything that is beneath. When your mind is calm your awareness will be strong, thus enable you to understand your very true self. Some of us might feel happy to see so many good things within and some might be frighten to see the limitations that they have. This is where the beginners will become very sensitive and immaterial events can sometime cause them to feel extremely happy or sad.

To overcome this sensitivity what I did was if I were to face anything negative emotion I will just observe the emotion and not to give any attention to it. Just observe your emotion like you are watching a movie and sooner or later the negative feeling will just subside and by doing so you can prevent attracting further negative people and events into your life.

Sometimes observing it seems to increase the negative emotion and we felt even more sad, disappointed or angry. This happen because instead of observing the negative thoughts in our mind with a neutral emotion, we accidentally give attention to it thus riding along the train of thought. Another way is to temporary do something that will not remind you of your negative emotion. Go have a holiday, go shopping, go watch a nice movie, go listen to your favorite music, eat your favorite food etc. Do something that will lead you to a positive emotional state or less negative emotional state. This doesn’t mean you are avoiding your challenges or problems, it just that you are shifting your attention away from it for awhile and when you are feeling much better go back to solve your challenges and learn something from the process.

Think Creatively

The Power of Positive Thoughts

CNN LARRY KING LIVE

(BEGIN VIDEO CLIP)LARRY KING, CNN HOST: Tonight, unhappy with your love, your job, your life, not enough money? Use your head. You can think yourself into a lot better you. Positive thoughts can transform can attract the good things you know you want. Sound far-fetched? Think again. It's supported by science.Ahead, an hour that can change the way you think about the world and alter your life forever. It's next on LARRY KING LIVE.(END VIDEO CLIP)KING: Good evening.A special edition of LARRY KING LIVE tonight; we're calling the program beyond the power of positive thinking, how to change your life, how to use the power of your imagination, and mine, to create what you want in your life.Our guests can help you do that. They are Bob Proctor, who went from high school dropout to best-selling author. He spent the last 40 years coaching individuals on how to attain their life ambitions.John Assaraf, as a teenager John risked the potentially fatal consequences of a turbulent lifestyle which could have easily landed him in jail or the morgue. But today, he's written a "New York Times" best-selling book and built four multimillion dollar companies.Michael Beckwith, founder and spiritual director of the Agape International Spiritual Center, which celebrates its 20 anniversary this fall.John DeMartini, the founder of the DeMartini Foundation and the Concourse of Wisdom School, one of the world's largest personal and professional development organizations.And, JZ Knight, the (INAUDIBLE) member of our group is CEO of JZ K. Inc. and author of her autobiography "A State of Mind."We'll start with Mr. Proctor. We're calling the show the power of positive thinking. Define that for me.BOB PROCTOR, BEST-SELLING AUTHOR: Well, there is power to positive thinking if you internalize it. I think there's a lot of misunderstanding on it. People they think if they just think positive the world's going to change.It's not going to change. What they're going to do is heighten their frustration because they're looking for change and it doesn't happen. We think on our conscious mind, on a conscious level. It's our educated mind but it's the subconscious mind that's controlling the vibration we're in, controlling the results we're getting.So, if the positive thinking is going to change our life, we've got to internalize those positive thoughts, not the easiest thing to do but you can do it.KING: How do you harness that, John Assaraf?JOHN ASSARAF, CO-FOUNDER, ONECOACH: I think you've got to make a decision, Larry, you know. We've got two choices to make with whatever the situation is. Number one, it could be negative or it could be positive. Our choice is what makes the biggest difference in all of the equation is making the choice to look at something positively, even though the negative side is there. I think that's what we have to do.KING: Michael Beckwith, was Dr. Norman Vincent Peale's famous book, "The Power of Positive Thinking," was that too pedestrian?REV. MICHAEL BECKWITH, FOUNDER, AGAPE INTERNATIONAL SPIRITUAL CENTER: Well, I didn't read that for a number of years. I entered into this way of teaching because I had a spiritual awakening and began to see that we were surrounded by a presence, an energy, a life force, call it God, call it the divine energy.KING: He called it God, right?BECKWITH: Yes. And that through that immersion into that awareness I began to see that, yes, there is power in your thinking but it's not positive thinking. You know you could be positive that you're broke. You can be positive that you're rich. So it's really, I call it affirmative thinking, having an affirmative realization that the nature of the universe is good and when you surrender to it, when you align yourself with it, when you embody, as Bob Proctor was talking about, as you internalize it, then your life begins to change.KING: You're saying, John DeMartini that this is doable?JOHN DEMARTINI, FOUNDER, DEMARTINI FOUNDATION: Not only is it doable but we do it every day because what happens is the quality of our life is based on the quality of the questions we ask and it's not what happens to us on the outside. It's how we ask questions and filter it and perceive it on the inside.And so, we have an event and we ask how is that event that we think is so terrible, how does it serve us and how does it help us fulfill what is really most important to our life? Then what happens is we transform through the perception of that action into an opportunity that we can now use as a resource for our life. KING: Where do you learn this, Ms. Knight?JZ KNIGHT, RAMTHA'S SCHOOL OF ENLIGHTENMENT: I don't subscribe to positive thinking because that would suggest that we're all negative and the connotation of negative is that we're all bad. And it's difficult enough to survive in the world and have self-esteem without thinking that you have to think positive because you're already bad.KING: What do you call it?KNIGHT: I call it being wonderful.KING: What's the law of attraction, Bob?PROCTOR: The law of attraction is based on the law of vibration. The whole universe operates by laws. Dr. Werhner von Braun said that the laws are so precise that we don't have any difficult building spaceships, sending people to the moon and you can time the landing with the precision of a fraction of a second. But, attraction and vibration are hooked together. The vibration we're in is determined by the ideas that you're emotionally involved with.KING: And how do you grab that, Michael?BECKWITH: You need to have a vision for your life. Most of the time people are concentrating on what they don't want to happen. They can articulate it very well. "I hope this never happens to me." And when you ask the average person they don't know exactly what they want. They cannot describe a reality they want to live in.Now when you begin to describe it and begin to generate those kind of feelings that you're already living in it, the universe will compel you into right action. You'll begin to do things differently.KING: Dr. DeMartini, does this apply to the law of physics? Are we talking about something that you could look it up in a book?DEMARTINI: Yes, actually, because what happens just like in the law of life and the law of physics, just like a magnet has two sides and if you try to get rid of one side of the magnet, the negative side, it keeps following you. You always have two sides. So, you have to be able to take both sides and use them to your advantage.KING: JZ if the day is cloudy or rainy and we're bothered by that we're determining to be bothered by that right?KNIGHT: Absolutely. Absolutely.KING: We're making it. If rain ain't doing it, we're doing it.KNIGHT: We're doing it. We are creating the nature of our reality by what we choose, how we choose to think about our life and the outside world.KING: Coming up, wouldn't you like to be excited about your day when you wake up instead of being stressed? Find out how to make it possible next.(BEGIN VIDEO CLIP)BECKWITH: And from the very being, the nature of your being, you must say "So what?" That's the strongest affirmation that you'll ever hear.When I was quite young attending college there were two things going on simultaneously. One, I was having a spiritual breakthrough, a spiritual opening while, at the same time, I was ending a career in selling marijuana.The real miracle of living is when you're no longer intoxicated by praise or depressed by un-appreciation.And, I just started crying. I just started sobbing and I turned my life over to God, surrendered my life to the universe, surrendered my life to love, to be an instrument to bring about love and harmony and peace, however the presence wanted to use me. My life would be dedicated to that for the rest of my life.And if you begin to open up through your affirmation so what! You'll begin to move into the consciousness of what's so. So what contains the what so.There's a dimension of us that has never been hurt, harmed, or endangered in any way and with intention, with practice, with love, prayer, meditation, you can uncover that dimension of your life that has no beginning and has no end and let it shine in this incarnation.What is so? God has always loved you. What is so? Wholeness is inside of your being. What is so? Infinite supply surrounds you. What is so? It doesn't matter who's in the White House. Who's in your house? Who's in your house? Who's in your house?(END VIDEO CLIP)(COMMERCIAL BREAK)KING: We're back with this extraordinary panel and we're learning how to make things better in our lives. We can't do better than that for you.Michael Beckwith, what are some simple steps a person can do to change his or her own life?BECKWITH: Well, first of all, when we think about what reality is, we think about this unified field of awareness that's everywhere that's operating for us. So, what an individual has to do they have to begin to have an inner talk of uplift, men of inspiration of affirmation, begin to agree with themselves that it can be better.KING: Every day?BECKWITH: Every single day. It has to be a practice until that practice becomes a way of life. KING: What do you do though, John Assaraf, about bad events, I mean terrible events, your house burns down?ASSARAF: Yes. Everything that happens to us we have a choice again of making a decision how we perceive that and how we react to that. And we can have our house burning right in front of us and things could be devastating in front of us but our decision to interpret that is what makes the entire difference and we always have that choice.KING: That seems, Bob, like a hard thing to learn.PROCTOR: It is a hard thing to learn. And, I was thinking as John was talking about it, I was taking my mind back to when I was always focused on what was wrong, the bad circumstances they dominated my thinking. It took a long time to change it. I had Earl Nightingale's record. I played it over and over and over again. KING: (INAUDIBLE).PROCTOR: Earl is a good friend. I worked with Earl for five years in Chicago. But it was the repetition of listening to that that changed it. That's how it was programmed in the first place. That's how it can be changed.I think that JZ was mentioning the secret. There's a movie "The Secret." If a person would keep watching it over and over again they will reprogram their mind.KNIGHT: But also, if I may interject here, there is a beauty that rises up in us, a greater mind that rises up in it that comes to the surface that is all beauty and originality.KING: Are you saying you don't have bad days?KNIGHT: I have bad days if I decide to feel sorry for myself.BECKWITH: When we begin to think in a particular way it definitely overrides and transcends those genetic...PROCTOR: Your thoughts.KNIGHT: Absolutely.BECKWITH: And to grow in this way simply means that we're eliminating the filters. We're eliminating the obstructions. We're eliminating the faulty beliefs. We're not adding anything to us whatsoever. All spiritual growth and all growth towards success or progress is an elimination of that which is hindering.ASSARAF: And we are genetically wired a certain way and 50 percent of our propensity is the way we think and behave are genetic in nature. Then we're raised by the same people who gave us their genetics. And so we get conditioned to believe and think and behave consistently day in and day out. We call it a self fulfilling doom that we get into.And the first part is awareness. The first part is awareness that I don't have to live this way anymore. I don't have to do this anymore. I don't have to think this way anymore and become aware of it. That's number one.Then you set a new vision for yourself and scientifically just the latest brain research suggests that it takes at least 30 days of mental reprogramming to start seeing the differentiation between your old self and the new self.KING: John DeMartini, one of the definitions of insanity is repeating the same act expecting a different result. If that's true, first of all, half the globe is insane, right? We all have done that.DEMARTINI: Or asleep.KING: Can you break that?DEMARTINI: Yes. Every human being has a set of values and through those values they filter their reality. Whatever is highest on their value they tend to bring discipline and order to and they tend to focus on them spontaneously, innately.Whatever is lowest on their value they tend to have chaos around and disorder around. And, if they're trying to set objectives that is not really truly aligned to their highest values, they tend to self defeat because they tend to unconsciously keep creating what's really on their value system. So, when you set objectives, if you don't set them congruently and aligned with your highest values, you tend to self defeat and have negative self talk.KING: But to change you have to want to change, right?DEMARTINI: You have to identify and set objectives according to what's truly valuable to you, what's truly inspiring to you, or you're automatically going to have the feedback system called the negative thought I think personally.PROCTOR: I think all you have to do is become aware that you can change. I didn't think I could change.KING: What changed you?PROCTOR: "Think and Grow Rich," the book and Ray Stanford, a guy that got me to read it and he convinced me that I could do better than I was doing. I think I believed in his belief in me. I didn't believe in me. But he was so adamant that I could do better and he said, "Just read the book and do what it says." And I started to read it and that's what led me into Earl's material, one thing to another and I changed.KING: What did you, Michael, what changed you?BECKWITH: Well, in terms of change one of my favorite statements is pain pushes you until the vision pulls you. So, you grow in two ways either through pain or through insight. So, some people will get sick and tired of being sick and tired and begin to make that decision, begin to articulate a vision for their life, begin to walk in that direction. Others will have insight, an ah-hah will happen to them and they'll see life in a much wider perspective and then from that wider perspective make a decision to begin to walk.KING: Are we to blame, John, for most of the time for what happens to us?ASSARAF: Are we to blame? Well, we can blame other people and that's the easy thing to do because we can point the finger.KING: That rat.ASSARAF: Yes, we can just blame everybody else. There are certain things that happen to us, Larry, that are inconvenient that we don't like and we can put blame on somebody else or ourselves. I think we've got to take full responsibility for our reality and how we approach anything that happens to us.BECKWITH: Absolutely.KNIGHT: I agree.PROCTOR: I don't think we're to be blamed. We're not to be blamed for our programming but we're responsible for changing it.BECKWITH: Absolutely. Yes, I don't like to use the word blame. No one is to blame but ignorance. PROCTOR: That's right.BECKWITH: Ignorance is the only thing that is to blame. And once you enter into he awareness of forgiveness releasing shame, blame, and regret, you can change your life.KING: John DeMartini, does it require brains?DEMARTINI: You know I think...KING: I mean you have to be smart to do this.DEMARTINI: I think that it requires awareness.BECKWITH: Right.DEMARTINI: But I think the greatest awareness occurs when we're grateful and our heart is open.KING: Just ahead can you really wish for your soul mate and find him? Our panel knows how to make it happen. They'll share it with us next.(BEGIN VIDEO CLIP)PROCTOR: You know when a person has no hope they are lost, absolutely lost. I was losing. I was unhappy. I was sick. I was broke. I think I was earning $4,000 a year and I owed $6,000.For the first time I realized that I had choices. I could choose what I wanted to do. Now it was vague and I didn't have a whole lot of confidence in it but I was starting to know it.It took me nine years to figure out what I had actually done to change but I found out something interesting. Most people that are highly successful cannot articulate on why they are.If you don't make the hard decisions you have wasted your time coming here. You know what the decisions are. I don't know what they are for you but you know what they are.Positive thinking is nothing if you don't internalize it and you don't internalize it once. It's through repetitionIt's your life. You only get one bite at the apple. If you don't treat you right, who's going to?(END VIDEO CLIP)(COMMERCIAL BREAK)KING: OK, we'll start with John DeMartini in this. How do you find the true love of your life?DEMARTINI: Well, I'm going to say something that's probably different than a lot of people. But I really believe that we are actually surrounded by it and it's either in one form, in one person, or we diversified it to a group of people in our lives but every single...KING: Six soul mates?DEMARTINI: Our soul mate. Every single thing that we're searching for we unconsciously are creating around us but sometimes if we've had extreme pain associated with a relationship with one person we diversify all the things that we like into people around us.KING: You've lost your wife, right?DEMARTINI: Yes, my wife passed away about just under two years ago.KING: Now are you on a search?DEMARTINI: Well, it's interesting. Six weeks before she passed away she held my hand and she looked me straight in the eyes and she said, "It's now time to look for another star woman, another star girl." Her name was Athena Starwoman. And three weeks after she passed away, I ran into a lovely woman named Star in Las Vegas. She happens to be here today. And, if it wasn't for her saying that, my former wife saying that, I don't think I would have noticed it (INAUDIBLE).KING: How do you find a soul mate, JZ?KNIGHT: Well, a soul mate is equal to who we are, so the first thing we have to do is fall in love with ourselves. We have to like who we are. Otherwise, if we don't, we're going to get frequency specific with people in our life that...KING: Bad choices.KNIGHT: ...reflect back to ourselves. So, first thing fall in love with yourself. Be to you what you would love to have in another person.BECKWITH: Absolutely.KNIGHT: Then that person comes.KING: Michael.BECKWITH: What you're looking for you're looking with and so as you begin, as JZ was talking about, to really fall in love with and tap into those qualities of love and caring and generosity and kindness and appreciation you begin to radiate those kind of qualities into your life.KING: Is it hard, John Assaraf, to get rid of the bad person in your life?ASSARAF: Is it hard to get rid of the bad person in your life?KING: Yes, well let's say it isn't working but you hang on.ASSARAF: It's very, very hard. We get so accustomed to our surroundings and our environment and the relationships that we have. Anytime that that is a part of our life releasing that is very, very difficult. We don't like to change our environment. We don't like to change our environment at work. We don't like to change our environment with our relationships. It's very, very difficult. Anything that we get accustomed to having in our life is very hard to let go of.KING: We're doing things a little differently here tonight. We do have a studio audience and we're going to take some questions. And we'll start with Lisa, are you there?LISA: Hi. My question is how does the law of attraction apply to relationships because I can see how you could attract individual goals but it's harder to see how you could visualize a specific person that you want?KING: Who wants to grab that, John?PROCTOR: You shouldn't put a face on the person. See yourself with all -- with the person with all those qualities. You're going to move into that vibration and you'll attract them.ASSARAF: I think it's important to understand, Larry, that, you know, if we go back to the premise that all we are is energy and that we will attract everything that we resonate with, so if we are focusing on what we want in the person with all the attributes and what he or she has and we believe with our whole heart and soul that that person will be found and we allow the universe to do its part while we, as JZ said, become that person filled with love and beauty that we are, we will attract that person.KING: Michael.BECKWITH: I think it's clear, Lisa, also we have to define what relationship is. And relationship is a joint participation in the good of life or in the good of God. So, you're not going into a relationship to get something from someone. You're going into a relationship to be more yourself so that you're with somebody this is the individual in which you get to -- you feel comfortable being loving, giving, sharing, kind and forgiving. But if you think you're going to get something from the relationship, you're setting up a resistance there already.KING: Why do we choose often, Bob, the wrong person?PROCTOR: I think it goes back to what JZ said. We don't know who we are.KNIGHT: We don't know who we are.PROCTOR: And we're searching for something outside of ourselves so we see someone and think she's pretty. He does this, you know. And so, you know, we're looking to get something there. It's like Michael said, it's not what you get. It really comes back, what Stanford taught me he said, "Get to know who you are." And he said, "And start to understand yourself and take control over your life. And until you do that, nothing is going to work right."ASSARAF: It's also -- sorry, Michael. It's also a function of our self image of ourselves so we have an image, an unconscious image of who we are, what we believe we can attract, what we deserve, and we will look for that match in our life as long as we don't change the internal image in our own mind, nothing will change.KING: When we come back, I'll reintroduce the panel.And, what if you wish for a million bucks, will you get it? Find out when LARRY KING LIVE returns.(BEGIN VIDEO CLIP)ASSARAF: Your past results, OK, do not, do not represent what you're capable of achieving. Well, from the age of 13 to about 19, I was involved with a group of kids that spent a lot of time on the streets. And what I really wanted to do was make money. I came from a family who had wonderful love and wonderful environment but money wasn't something that my family knew how to make and I wanted to live a better life. And, I really took myself to educating myself about what does it really take to make money? What does it take to build a company? What does it take to have a great life? And fortunately for me when I was 19, I found some wonderful mentors who asked me some great questions.And so if you don't believe in your -- if you really, really, really don't believe in your product or service, stop doing it. Stop telling yourself a story that you've got to do it just because I need the money. I need something to make an income.And part of me believed them because they always told me that if you didn't go to school, if you didn't get a degree, you couldn't get a job. You couldn't take care of your family. So, there was something that was nagging at me my whole life was, you know, that's what people that I respected told me, not my parents fortunately but everybody else said that.To win in the game of life you've got to focus on winning the game of life.(END VIDEO CLIP)(COMMERCIAL BREAK)KING: Our panel is Bob Proctor, John Assaraf, Michael Beckwith, John DeMartini, and JZ Knight. JZ, you say you treat the universe as a shopping cart and all you got to do is ask.KNIGHT: I teach people that.KING: Ask for $1 million and you get it?KNIGHT: Well, what I teach people is, is that money comes as a result of ingenious thoughts, creativity, because we're born creators, and that when we create our day and we start out with our day and say, "This day I will access information about the future, technology and genius." And during that day great thoughts come that start you on a journey of creating something of value that as a consequence of that you get paid for it.KING: Money follows.KNIGHT: Absolutely.KING: "Time" magazine had an article, "Does God Want you to be Rich?" For several decades a philosophy has been percolating in the 10 million strong Pentecostal wing of Christianity that seems to turn the gospels on its head. In a nutshell, it suggest that God who loves you does not want you to be broke. It's been propelled by Joel Osteen's four million selling book, "Your Best Life Now." Does he want you to be rich?DEMARTINI: Absolutely.BECKWITH: Absolutely.PROCTOR: Absolutely.KNIGHT: Absolutely.(CROSSTALK)ASSARAF: But most people don't understand...KING: What does God care?KNIGHT: But what isn't God? KING: Why does God care if you've got $10 or $100. KNIGHT: Isn't that small? Isn't that cheap? ASSARAF: I think God cares because we work with business owners...KING: Just asking. ASSARAF: Larry, we work with business owners all over the world. That's what we do. And the first thing we tell them is, if you could figure out how to serve another human being, if you could figure out how to give them your product or your service, and figure out how to get that to the masses and serve them and do well for them, you'll be rewarded with riches. Why wouldn't God want every human being to be serve another? PROCTOR: See, the possession of money is so ridiculously out of balance. One percent of the population has about 96 percent of all the money. We go through school, no one teaches us how to earn money. We don't learn at home. And we grow up with the idea you go to work to earn money. Working is the worst way to earn money. You should go to work for satisfaction. You provide services to earn money. You do. Wealthy people all have multiple sources of income. BECKWITH: The way I look at it is like this. We're here to deliver our gifts, our talents and our capacities, and develop ourself to our fullest potential and express ourself. Now, the universe, the power, the presence, the love of God, whatever you want to call this presence, wants your structures stable so that God can express more through you. KING: Another question from the audience from Kelsey -- Kelsey.KELSEY: I love where I work. But I live within my means. However, each month I'm living seemingly paycheck to paycheck. How do I value what I earn, versus the satisfaction I get from working at a career that I'm passionate about? PROCTOR: I don't think you should mix them up. You're looking at your job as where you get your money. Your job is where you get your satisfaction. Set up different ways of serving people where you can earn money. You don't have to be there. You can earn it while you're sleeping. ASSARAF: You also can't look at your present circumstances and allow it to control your thinking, because then you're going to create more of the same circumstances. You've got to get out of that loop and ask yourself, what I do really want to do, and then follow that. KING: John, I came into my office today upstairs, on my door was a vision board. ASSARAF: We saw it. KING: It had the kids, it had the wife, it had the job, the palm trees for retirement. Forget the palm trees. OK. And do you -- what are vision boards? I understand you have a story about this, about the visualization.ASSARAF: I do. Many years ago, I looked at another way to represent some of the materialistic things I wanted to achieve in my life, whether it was a car or a house or anything. And so I started cutting out pictures of things that I wanted. And I put those vision boards up. And every day for probably about just two to three minutes, I would sit in my desk and I would look at my board and I'd close my eyes. And I'd see myself having the dream car and the dream home and the money in the bank that I wanted and the money that I wanted to have for charity. Five years later, my one son Keenan (ph) came up to my office and he sat on the boxes and said, you know, Daddy, what's in the boxes? And I said, they're my vision boards, and they've been in those boxes for five years. And so he didn't understand. So I pulled out one of the vision boards, after opening up the box, and there was a nice car and another little trinket that I wanted to buy. And when I opened up, or pulled out the second vision board, there was a picture of the home that I was living in right now, that I had been living in for a year, had renovated it, and didn't even know -- I swear to...PROCTOR: He phoned me. He phoned me within two or three minutes of that. I saw it on the board.ASSARAF: The house that I live in. UNIDENTIFIED FEMALE: We teach to do that, draw on a piece of card what it is you want to manifest, and simply look at it and be present with it. That's called creating a time trial to the future. DEMARTINI: Our innermost dominant thought becomes our outermost tangible reality. When I was 17 years old, I almost died. I lived on the North Shore of Oahu in a tent. And I had the opportunity to meet Paul Brag (ph), who's an amazing teacher who's 93 years old. And he told me to write down my dreams -- not only for myself, but my family, my community, my city, my state, my nation, and my world -- and write it for at least 100 years. Today, all of these years, 34 years, I've been master planning my life and one of the things that I actually dreamed of doing is sitting here facing you, saying what I'm about to say. So I know that it works. KING: If one of you have a vision board with my picture on it, I'll go to break. Still ahead, can you make yourself healthy or just stop smoking just by thinking about it? Find out more after this break. DEMARTINI: One day leaving this health food store, I saw a little flyer on a door, special guest -- guest speaker, Paul C. Brag, Sunset Recreation Hall, North Shore of Oahu. (BEGIN VIDEO CLIP)DEMARTINI: The quality of your life is based on the quality of the questions you ask. And ask questions inside, pull them out of you. What do you really love to create in your life? (END VIDEO CLIP)DEMARTINI: And that night, I don't know how to describe it, it's just something came over me and I said, I know what I want to do. I want to become like this gentleman. I want to travel the world. I want to dedicate my life to the study of universal laws, as he was talking about, and I want to become a great teacher and philosopher, and step foot in every country on the face of the earth and share my research findings with people. (BEGIN VIDEO CLIP)DEMARTINI: Because if you don't plant the flowers in the garden of your mind, everybody, you're going to be pulling weeds out from everybody else's. (END VIDEO CLIP)DEMARTINI: And he said to me, every single day from the rest of your life, say I am a genius and I apply my wisdom. Now here I sat there, I'm a genius, I'm thinking, there's no way I'm a genius. So I said it over and over again. And he made me say it until I had my eyes closed and my body was congruent with it. And he patted me on the shoulder and says, you never miss a day for the rest of your life. And that was the beginning of a journey of teaching, healing and philosophy. I went on to be a scholar in school, I went premed honor. I ended up being a chiropractic because I love the power and philosophy of chiropractic. And it was just the most amazing thing, because it believes the power inside us is what heals (BEGIN VIDEO CLIP)DEMARTINI: If you're going through life and you want to create an amazing life, you better have a vision that far exceeds that. You want perpetuity, you want a foundation that goes beyond it, you want a vision that goes beyond it. There is an immortal calling in all of us to do something magnificent with our life, that's way bigger than our mortal body can see. (END VIDEO CLIP)(COMMERCIAL BREAK)KING: We're back. J.Z., can you remove an illness just by thinking about it? KNIGHT: Yes. I was a heavy smoker, and I was developing emphysema. Most women like to smoke, most people that I knew did. And I went and got a CAT scan, and when I saw the CAT scan of what my lungs were doing, I knew I wasn't going to be alive very much longer. And so I simply said, I'm going to go live somewhere in my brain where I have always been well. And in that moment, I simply moved what I am to a different neuronet in my brain. KING: How, Michael, do we form the habits we have? BECKWITH: Just doing something over and over and over again, oftentimes unconsciously. KING: But why would we do it, even if we don't like it?BECKWITH: Well, it goes back to what we were saying at the earlier part of the show. You have genetic programming and then you an environmental influence. So you end up copying what you see around you. DEMARTINI: And many times the very thing we're doing that we're trying to get rid of, unconsciously, we have associations of benefits. We underlying benefits that we're actually...KING: How about those thing, though, Bob, like, drug addiction?PROCTOR: Well, drug addiction is -- it's a habit. And it can be changed. No, it can be changed. Many people change it. KING: A habit that becomes a need. PROCTOR: Millions of people change it, so it can be done. Millions don't but there is millions that...BECKWITH: Individuals that are addicted oftentimes are looking for something that they're finding temporarily, in a counterfeit way, through that drug or through that momentary high. And your brain can produce that without the drug. PROCTOR: See, I think the problem goes back -- we don't know ourself. We can go right through our educational system, the best schools in the world, and come out and know virtually nothing about ourself. ASSARAF: There's really two parts of our brain, One is the conscious mind,, which we now know is only responsible for only two to four percent of our behaviors. So we could have the desire, the want, the need, the passion for change, but there's another side of our psyche, the nonconscious mind, that we now know controls 96 to 98 percent of our conditioned way of doing, being, seeing and behaving every single day. So you can have the desire, but you this program running at a nonconscious level that's going to keep you at your status quo, whether you're a drug addict, whether you're broke. That's why most people, Larry, who win the Lottery, for example, 86 percent of them give away all the money, is because they are conditioned at a nonconscious level to be broke. Their self-image and their self-worth is going to dictate their self-wealth. And that, by the way, I heard from this great guy, John DeMartini. He's absolutely right.PROCTOR: If we're coaching people to change, we have them in a 13 month program. KING: Does rehab work? DEMARTINI: It all depends. I go back to the value system because the hierarchy of one's values dictates their destiny. And so if they have an unconscious motive and unconscious value to continue doing something, all the comments to them really don't mean anything. They have to have an unconscious drive to accomplish what they want to do. And so what I do, and I have people that are so-called label addicts, I go in there and ask them all the benefits that they're getting out of it and bring the unconscious conscious first. And when they discover 100 benefits that they're unconsciously getting out of being the drug addict, it blows their mind to realize why they're really doing what they're doing. KING: Michael, what causes relapse? BECKWITH: Exactly what he's saying here. The benefits, the temporary benefits of getting that momentary high. They haven't yet seen themselves...KING: You miss it, so you want it?BECKWITH: They're craving, the body, the mind, the chemicals that are being produced. They don't quite understand that those chemicals, those endorphins can be produced from a sense of connection. KING: But we're in a drug conscious society. Look at all of the legal drugs to stop your pain, make you feel better, do this, do that. ASSARAF: Absolutely. DEMARTINI: A pill for every ill. KING: A pill for every ill. ASSARAF: We've got the best pharmacy in the world, right here, in our brain. KNIGHT: It's true.ASSARAF: No pharmacy can compare with the human mind. PROCTOR: There's a genius system built within us to keep us in excellent working order if we were to understand it. Understanding is the key. ASSARAF: We become addicted to the emotions. KNIGHT: We are addicted to our emotions. That's the greatest addiction there is. PROCTOR: You did your show a little while ago. I was watching where you had the fellow on that took Proverbs over 31 days. KING: Yes, Solomon. PROCTOR: Yes, well. What did Solomon say? He said, in all your getting, get understanding. And the opposite of understanding is doubt and worry. The only way to get understanding is to study, there's no other way to get it. KING: We'll be right back. And just ahead, what are you doing that prevents your own happiness? Don't go away. KNIGHT: So I sort of grew up and I -- knowing every day that if I prayed to God, that everything that I asked for would always get taken care of. I just thought everybody did. As I grew into a mature woman and got married and had children, I just went on my destiny knowing that there was something big could happen in my life. (BEGIN VIDEO CLIP)KNIGHT: This day I love God. This day, the wisdom and love of God shines through me. It is my reality. I say that all of the time. (END VIDEO CLIP)KNIGHT: All these years, it has been to help people to understand, first off, that they're divine, the capacity is inside of them to do marvelous things, are innate in them, that things that happen to them, it is not things happening to them, but the source leaking out of them. (BEGIN VIDEO CLIP)KNIGHT: All of this, is spiritual because spirit is thought. It's the intangible ghost of reality that reality comes from. (END VIDEO CLIP)KNIGHT: And in creating your day, the first thing you have to say is, that I'm wonderful, I'm filled with wonder. I am my greatest mystery. And this day what I say will manifest and I will experience the wonder of myself. (COMMERCIAL BREAK)KING: We're back. What a show tonight. We promise to do more on this. Let's take another question from our audience. And start with Valerie. VALERIE: Hi. I'm self-employed and staying focussed and clear- headed about all my goals, both professionally and personally, can be really challenging. What's your advice for staying positive and patient with so much uncertainty in my professional life? BECKWITH: It comes down to your practice. Everything that we've talked about here, it comes down to the word practice, that you begin to develop the habit of doing something every single day in your life. Describe your life and how it's going to be. Begin to tell yourself that life is for you and not against you. Begin to be aware that there's something trying to emerge through you right now.Since you are an infinite being and you're here to progress, there is always something trying to emerge for you right now. So you're not sitting around waiting for the New Age. You're on the new edge. Something is trying to happen. KNIGHT: And you're wonderful. And everything that you think matters. So you're worries matter. So what you have to do, you have to get up, first thing in the morning and create your day, and say this day, I'm a genius. Not only am I a genius, I create a new reality that is fulfilling and without worry. All day long. BECKWITH: Practice. KING: OK, another audience question. And this one is from Bonnie. BONNIE: I's like to know how do you change a negative perception of an aging body and mind into a positive acceptance of the same age and body and mind? KING: You are what you feel? DEMARTINI: Well, you know, I think we're blessed because as we mature, our eyesight tends to get a little bit weakened and our hearing tends to go. So I think what the universe has done is make sure that we can't see what we see in the mirror. So the best thing to do is honor your sight as it starts to fade and you can appreciate what it does. No, but every single day it is wise to concentrate on what you do love about yourself, instead of focussing on what you don't. KNIGHT: May I ask you tomorrow morning, if you want to be 30 years younger, your genes, here everything you say...BECKWITH: Absolutely.KNIGHT: ... you have a code for your entire attitude. When you wake up in the morning and decide, today, I am going to be 30 years younger and fabulous. And if you do that, you start creating proteins in your self that replicates that attitude.KING: Wow. PROCTOR: Quakers have a saying, pray and move your feet. I think what you've got to do is get out and exercise. I went over to a gym, a guy named Eli Palmer (ph), he took a look at me and he said, you're just going keep getting bigger and bigger and bigger around the waist. And I started to work with the guy, get up at 5:00 in the morning, I'm in the gym at 6:00 in the morning and work for an hour. I taken three inches off my waist. KING: You're all saying happiness is attainable? PROCTOR: Absolutely. BECKWITH: Happiness is the natural state of our being. KNIGHT: It is a natural state of being, without fear. Without fear. (CROSSTALK)ASSARAF: It's not condition based. DEMARTINI: I think when we're authentic with our true values, we have fulfillment. KING: One more audience question from Bernie -- Bernie. BERNIE: Hi.What is the best way to retain a positive attitude while investing in a volatile stock market? PROCTOR: Quit investing in the volatile stock market. KING: Don't do it. PROCTOR: And don't do it. Change your behavior. ASSARAF: Even if you're investing in a volatile stock market, you've got to keep one thing in mind, and that's not the stock market. It's your perception of the stock market. There are people who invest in volatile stock markets that don't get affected emotionally by it. BERNIE: Right.ASSARAF: And so if they don't get emotionally affected by it, then it's not the stock market. It's the individual's perception of the stock market. So when you change the way you look at something, the thing you look at will change. KNIGHT: Remember, you create reality. You have it in you. Consciousness and energy creates reality. What you think matters. Your opinions help to affect the whole and your eventual outcome in reality. DEMARTINI: If the stock market goes up, you're paying more dollar per stock share. If it goes down, you're getting it for less. So there's blessings on either side. Knowing that both of them are valuable and staying long-term with it. KING: I got to get a break. But Michael, do affirmations work? BECKWITH: Affirmations definitely work. They help you keep your attention, allowing that kind of energy to flow. They're not going to make something happen, but they make something welcome. KING: Ahead in our final segment, how you can jumpstart your new life. Stick around for more of LARRY KING LIVE. (COMMERCIAL BREAK)KING: We're back with our final moments with our outstanding panel. We're going to do more of this and we just brought up a good topic. I just said the air conditioner's not working in here. BECKWITH: And now it is.KING: And that bothers me. And you said, live with it. Right? BECKWITH: No, I said I'm cool. And now it's working. KNIGHT: We know how to create a reality. KING: You just got cool. KNIGHT: Come to class, Larry. (CROSSTALK)KING: You've all written books, right? KNIGHT: Yes. KING: Is that the best way for anyone watching to jumpstart, read one of the books? I mean, what is -- how do we... PROCTOR: I think the best way to start is get a CD or a DVD and play it over and over and over again. KING: By one of you? PROCTOR: Well, the best one -- the best thing I have seen in 45 years, Larry, is the DVD "On the Secret". To get it, go to thesecret.tv. It was made out of Australia. It is the best thing I have ever seen done in this industry. KNIGHT: I think you would be very simple -- everybody gets up and says, what kind of life I do want from this day forward? And I'm going to write it down and I'm going to say this is who I am. BECKWITH: Absolutely.KNIGHT: To say, this is who I am. And negotiate your day through what you said. That's how you start. ASSARAF: If anybody wants to have more, whether it's a business, whether it's more money, they have to become more. And the only way to do that, OK, first is to educate yourself. And our society has gotten lost in teaching children how to memorize. Education is when we learn something, we get instructions on how to do something, and then we experience it. That's really the education that we want. And so that for me is pick a lane, pick something that you can choose, to move your life forward to the next level. PROCTOR: There is three of us, Dr. Martini, Michael Beckwith and myself, are going to working together next week -- is it two weeks -- at PSI Seminars. I don't own the company, but it is the best course I've ever seen. And it is all up and down the West Coast, it's in different parts of the world. KNIGHT: Our course is the best course I've ever seen. PROCTOR: Well, I think the program that... DEMARTINI: All of our courses are outstanding. KNIGHT: All of our courses are fabulous.DEMARTINI: My mother said to me, when she was putting me to bed when I was four years old, she said, son, before you go in the dream world, be sure to count your blessings, because those who are grateful for that they have, they get more to be grateful for. And I always say that that's the best way to start each day and end this day is in the state of gratitude. BECKWITH: I'd like to say something about that. I absolutely agree that it's so powerful. The enlightened give thanks for what most people take for granted. As you begin to be grateful for what most people take for granted, that vibration of gratitude makes you more receptive to good in your life. KING: J.Z., isn't change the hardest and most feared thing we do? KNIGHT: It is the most feared thing that we do because we're afraid of reprisal as a result of it. But change is a natural order of our being. We are creating reality every day. We're here to make known the unknown. It is innate in us, it's a part of our mechanism, it's a part of how our brain works. It's what we do best, but it's in a society that doesn't celebrate that. PROCTOR: And change is inevitable, but personal growth is choice. (CROSSTALK)BECKWITH: But we are here to change. We are here to grow, develop and unfold. We are progressive beings that have infinite capacity. KING: But we all fear it. (CROSSTALK)BECKWITH: We do until embrace the fact that we are here to grow. So that you say, how you to jumpstart? You wake up every day and you want to be different at the end of the day. You don't want to be the same person you go to bed at night. You want to have had an insight and a haha, you want to have done a new action. You would have said something new, so that you want to see yourself changing and becoming more yourself on a regular basis. DEMARTINI: I was -- I had the opportunity to speak for Mary Kay Ash (ph) many years ago. And I had the opportunity to interview and chat with her afterwards. And I said, Mary, if there's any advice you could give me -- I was in my 20s at the time -- for me in my life, what with a you say? And she said every single morning before you get and start your day, to sit down and write down the seven highest priority actions you could do today, because whoever sets the agenda brings the destiny about. And I started doing that. And I started compiling a list of the things that were truly important to me. And I noticed I increased the probability of those happening in my life just because I concentrated and I took...KNIGHT: And we do them every day. We do that every day. I do that every morning. DEMARTINI: At the end of the day, be grate grateful for all the different things that you accomplished. Those two things make a huge difference.(CROSSTALK)PROCTOR: ... taught me the same thing. He said six things, same concept.BECKWITH: Awareness. Awareness. Choice is a function of awareness. And he's just described how you build your awareness. KING: You have been an outstanding panel. I hope to do this again. I learned a lot of secrets about life here tonight. We hope everybody takes advantage of them. Our guests have been Bob Proctor, John Assaraf, Michael Beckwith, John Demartini and J.Z. Knight. And our subject has been "Beyond the Power of Positive Thinking: How to Change Your Life". We hope we've helped you.

Something about the Dhamma

Someone wrote this through email and I find it rather interesting!

Dear Brothers and Sisters in the Dhamma,
“Mano pubbangama dhamma mano settha manomaya
Manasa ce padutthena bhasati va karoti va
Tato nam dukkhamanveti cakkam'va vahato padam.” (Dhammapada 1)
Mind is chief; mind made are they. If one speaks or acts with wicked mind, because of that, suffering follows one, even as the wheel follows the hoof of the draught-ox.
“Mano pubbangama dhamma mano settha manomaya
Manasa ce pasannena bhasati va karoti va
Tato nam sukhamanveti chaya'va anapayini” (Dhammapada 2)
Mind is the forerunner of (all good) states. Mind is chief; mind-made are they. If one speaks or acts with pure mind, because of that, happiness follows one, even as one's shadow that never leaves.
A lot of people know the above verses very well, but not many people truly deeply understanding it. Especially “Mind is chief, mind made are they”
When someone cultivated their mind to understand above verses, actually they will be free from all kind of body diseases/illness. They will fully understand all kind of illness like heart problem, kidney problem, cancer, diabetes, high blood and etc. is all related to this defilement mind.
“You Created Your Own Reality”
When this mind is fully concentration, it is very powerful, it can go against the law of gravity. Just see those people who can float during meditation or those people who can walk with their shoes or bare feet crossing the hotel swimming pool and witness by the public. Bare feet against hot burning charcoal and etc.
Your today life is actually reflects what kind of mind you own. Your own body also reflects what kind of mind you having. If you think your body is the best doctor in the world, then this body will follow as what is in your thought. If you think old people useless and have a lot of illness, then you also become one of them. If you think out of 3 women 1 will having breast cancer or ovary cancer, then this is become true to you. If you think above 50 years old will suffer osteoporosis, then you also become one of them.
Just see and ask those healthy old and energetic people, their thought is always very positive and the most important is they are very confident with their body. Just ask those illness people, and you will find out that normally those people no confident with their body at all. This is why a lot of blood test central was built in your country. People who go for blood test is the sign of they lost confident with their body. This is the secret of healthy life, but when you fully understand it. It will not worth more than a penny.
Today, a lot of people thought that money is not easy to earn. Then their life will be according to what is in their mind. They need to go in the hard way to earn their difficult money. The basic secret of those rich people is simple, most of them think that they can easily gain a big money. This is the mind between the poor and the rich.
Remember………”You Created Your Own Reality”! This words is very magical and powerful, if let say one day you reborn in the hell, you should remember this words that You Created Your Own Reality……
If you are looking for happy life, you can create the following mind:-
1) I come to this Earth is for my Tour
2) I come to this Earth is to learn something before I go back….
3) Since this is only a Tour, so I should enjoy my tour very much, just imaging if you go for Holiday Tour, Play and Happy Loh!
Or
1) You are just like an actor or actress, you come to this earth just to act as a someone Grandfather, Grandmother, Mother, Father, Wife, Husband, Boyfriend, Girlfriend, Son or Daughter. Just like those actors like Tom Cruise, he acts so many movies but in the movies he can play so many type of character. He might name as “Maverick” in the Top Gun, he might be “Ethan Hunt” in the Mission Impossible or “Vincent” in Collateral But at the end he is still “Tom Cruise”. Just imaging your “true identity” is out “there” beyond space and time. Due to your cosmic mind power/energy, you come to this earth just like an actor to act your current character in this earth, but one very good new is…. you are your own Director. So you can change your movie at anytime you want. But remembers, don’t be too attached in the movie that you acting now, just only acting, don’t be too serious loh. Hey don’t forget that you come here to play, learn …and ….happy.
The moment your mind thought change, you life will follow changes as what is in your mind. Just like the wheel follows the hoof of the draught-ox. This is the powerful and quality of Buddha Dhamam. Once you know it and understand it, you life will change immediately.
Sanditthiko - visible here and now. Whatever you experiencing with the direct experience.
Akaliko - Immediate effective, not delayed and timeless
By the merit of above sharing
May all beings be free from mental and physical suffering
May they take care of themselves happily.
Best regards and blessing to all

Attracting anything you want to your life by knowing and applying the Law of Attraction

It has been almost 10 months since I came across this powerful knowledge and applied it to every aspect of my life. Since then, my life has just been growing at an unbelievable speed! Now if you know me, you would surely know that I am extremely passionate about sharing this powerful knowledge to just anyone.

"It is our thought that create the world" – Siddhartha Gotama

1 - Realizing the Truth and take 100% responsibility
Do you realize that everything that is happening in your life today is the result of your own creation and attraction? You are the one who is fully responsible for the good and not so good occurrences/episodes that you experience in life. Knowing and acknowledging this fact will be life transforming to you. This is indeed very true as when I first encountered the knowledge of the Law of Attraction, I wasn’t ready to accept the fact that those less than positive things that happen around me are the result of my own thoughts. I just willingly accept those good things are the result of my attraction. Until one day, a flash of consciousness struck me. I suddenly realized that the things that I didn’t wish to experience are also the results of my thoughts. My life was transformed as if from night into day. This acknowledgement is really an art as we have to clear off most of the delusions and false notions within our mind first before we can really see it working and this is when we take full responsibility of our life.

"...you shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free." - Jesus

Know the truth and the truth will set you free. That in itself is a beautiful truth. Go back to reality; the truth nature of life and there is where we are from and there is where lies all the answer to all of your questions.

2 - We are governed by the Laws of Nature
As you might be wondering how could this be? Why is it that we are responsible for everything that is happening around us? The universe that we live in is operated by natural laws and it is so precise that since the dawn of time until today, every morning the sun will rise from the east and set in the west. Meanwhile, our planetary system is continues to stay in precise orbit without colliding into each other nor floating out of orbit. The natural laws of the universe are so precise that when we fully grasp the dynamics of physics, and the orbit of the moon, we are able to time a flight to the moon within a fraction of a second. Whether you believe it or not the laws of nature work throughout time and space and it works on you and me all the time. Like the law of gravity, wherever we go around the earth it will make sure we stick to the ground and most of us don’t realize it’s there.

3 - The Law of attraction is one of the most powerful natural laws
There are many laws that together operate the entire universe and among these laws is a powerful law known as the Law of Attraction. This law is responsible in bringing together those which are inharmonious with each other (Its main function is to connect every energy in the universe and to put them in the right time and space in accordance to their vibration and such will link to other laws namely law of relativity, law of gravity etc). We often heard that “… attracts like minded people” (This situation of linking together for a common purpose is the result or reaction of like minds when they meet in the same time and space).

4 - Everything is made up of energy and thoughts are energy
The main factor which enables the Law of Attraction to function is the fact that everything in the universe is made out of energy. The entire universe is made up of energy, and thoughts are energy. Thought waves are cosmic wave and act like magnets, drawing to them thoughts of similar vibration. That is why people with similar thoughts and livelihood will always get attracted to people and events which are of similar nature.

"All that we are is the result of what we have thought."- Buddha

"So as a man thinks, so he is" - Bible

5 - You are the magnet of your life
You are like a magnet and every moment you are attracting people and events which are harmonious with your predominant (most frequent or common) thoughts at that given moment. When enough thoughts are accumulated on the topic that you most desire, it will then surely be drawn to within the realm of your life. The more thoughts you put into a topic, the faster you are going to attract it to your life experience.

6 - Visualize with emotion
Some people might ask why it is there topics which they have constantly thought about but has yet to manifest itself. When we think about the things that we wish to experience in life, we also need to invest emotion onto the topic while visualizing the entire process of the life experience we wish to manifest. These emotions act as amplifiers to our thoughts. Positive thoughts generate positive emotions or positive energy and draws positive life experience; negative thoughts generate negative emotions or negative energy and draws negative life experience.

By managing our emotions well, we will be able to manage the events and circumstances that will eventually enter our life for a reason.

7 - You have got to fall in love with your idea
Do you remember times when you really miss your loved ones? As the days draw near for the possibility to meet, you are filled with happy eagerness and every moment you visualize the joyful moment you are going to spend with you loved ones and sure enough you will attract those moments into your life. When you do the things that are harmonious with your life values and you love what you do so much, you will definitely excel in your chosen field. Love is a powerful emotion that is going to invoke the Law of Attraction and bring about positive people and events into your life.

8 - What should I do to fall in love with what I do?
In order for you to fall in love with a topic, that topic has got be in line with your individual values. You have to belief that a positive outcome will to happen to you based on path you have chosen, only then will you felt in love with your cause. Before that thought can become a reality, you have to accept it as true. This state of mind is belief. The foundation of all miracles is belief and it serves as a foundation of all religion and the fact is that everything is possible.

"To believe in the things you can see and touch is no belief at all; but to believe in the unseen is a triumph and a blessing." – Abraham Lincoln

"Whether you believe you can do something or you believe you can't, you're probably right" - Henry Ford.

9 - When will the things I want manifest?
There is another law known as the law of growth. It states that in order for an individual to materialize an idea, time and effort is needed. Human have not yet evolved to a state whereby the desired outcome can materializes as soon as the thought is conceived. There is always a buffer of time in order for you to achieve your idea.

"By thought the things you want is brought to you, by action you receive it" - Wallace D. Wattles.

The Law of Attraction can only attract the things that you already belief to exist. Therefore you need to have full conviction that your desired goal is an already existing reality even though you are yet possess it in the material world to complete the cycle of creation. For example, a businessman visualizes the money making idea to bring his business to greater heights. When he sees it in his mind’s eye everyday, he has to believe that that is already a fact. By doing so, he will live his life as if the idea has already come to pass and by this he will then attract this reality into his life!

"Men do not attract that which they want, but that which they are." - James Allen

All the above that you have read has the power for profoundly change lives. It is the master key to manifest goals and realities that you desire. The message that I wish to convey to you is that only when you mentally become what you wish to be, will you be able attract your desired outcome in the physical plane. Our role here is to create and install positive change in others.

Summary - The process of manifestation through the Law of Attraction:

1. Know what you truly want and define it clearly in quantifiable terms
2. Auto suggest (affirm) it in your daily life and install it in your subconscious mind
3. After awhile, this suggestion will become a desire and this is the first stage towards the manifestation of your dreams
4. When desire arises, actualization begins (the creative process)
5. Visualize and “emotionalize” that you already acquire that which you want in your mind and be grateful for it in every moment
6. Upgrade and improve the knowledge on how to balance your body, mind and soul
7. Bring your body, mind and soul to the state of harmony and the art of allowing will automatically take place
8. This is when the process of becoming what you want takes place in the universe
9. Be aware of the answers from the universe (your intuition or the inner voice) and the people and events that you attract to your life
10. Act upon the opportunities that come and have faith that it is here to help you to achieve your goals (take action with faith)
11. Have a deep sense of gratitude when receive it and give praise to yourself, the people around you and the universe.

So now you know why just 1% of the people in the world own more then half of the wealth in the world!

It is of utmost important to manage your thought well as to attract the positive things you wish to experience in life. May you be mindful of your thoughts, emotions and actions all the time.

Due to a vast demand for this profound knowledge, we have set up a website to share with those interested. You can log in to our website for more information at www.lifeformore.com I wish you all the best in life as we are placed here to live a life of abundant joy, happiness and blessings not only for ourselves but for others as well.

Copy writing by Justin Ooi and content copyrighted © by Bill Low Sum Chween 016-2499194

What is Marketing all about

Marketing is all about identifying the where about of your potential target audience that are looking for the value that your product and services are offering and then letting this target audience experience the value of the product or services in their mind which will eventually lead them to take action to materialize it in the physical plane.

- Bill Low

The secret behind the 1% of people in the world that enjoy 96% of the wealth in the world!

I always wonder why only so few people manage to become truly happy and abundance in life and this quest of mine lead the universe to show me the reasons. It was at a particular day when I went to a project launching of the non-profit organization that I am in. In fact I wasn’t really experiencing a positive feeling with the project and initially I am reluctant to go to the launching. While on my way back after my part-time lecturing in Sunway University there is a sound that flash through my mind that ask me to got to the launching instead. Without hesitation I knew that this was the guidance of the universe and I then visited that event.

During the event everything seems fine and after the event ended there is a post evaluation for the event team members. I was invited to the post evaluation but somehow was again guided by the universe to go away from the meeting as I was already seated in one of the chair. The universe response through one of the team members and she said “Oh my, the National Business Director is going to scold us”. Immediately I knew it was a sign from the infinite and I quickly got out of the room thanking the universe for its guidance.

I then was attracted to another friend of mine from another chapter; Danielle. We have a great positive conversation and she told me that she has a project which can benefit hundreds of young people and immediately I was attracted to these event as me too is planning to share the law of attraction with young people. Again I thank the universe and we have a great evening.

After the post evaluation my friends came out from the room and there was a rather not so positive energy surrounding them. After that there seems to be another informal meeting in the mamak stall. I also don’t felt like going but again, the universe has asked me to go there. I went, and to my surprise my team members where discussing about what has been going on and I felt it was just unfair to my team member as they did all their best and they where told in a harsh way that they are not meeting the standard of the Malaysia holding organization and they are still going to do it. I was really unhappy with it as there was this feeling of unjust that circulate around and again I went back home.

Few days later I gave my friends a call to confirm on their attendance to a yoga trip and I had heard from them that they are feeling very unhappy and really stress up that they wanted to quit the organization but they have agreed to help out and they have no choice.

Amaze by the fact, I email out an awakening letter to the team member and all of them responded in the same way; the way that kept so many from reaching their full potential.

To summarize the response they all said: If I had promise someone to deliver something I must do so as this is my responsibility and there is definitely suffering from the process as no pain no gain. I have no choice but to force my self to complete the task even if I don’t feel good about it. I owe my words to the person that I have promise and I don’t have the choice to stop this (there is a way to go about it and there is solutions).

Solutions: It’s is true that we need to deliver what we have promise but with terms and conditions. That is why before two or more business entities agreed to work together to achieve a certain goals there must be binding terms and conditions and same goes to unwritten promises or agreement and if there is a breach of agreement it is our right to leave and it is totally fair to do so.

I was surprise that majority of the people do not know that the have choice and how to decide on when to do the right thing. The universe wants me to see this and suddenly I was awaken by the fact that people just follow what the crowd does.

The reason why 1 % of the population in the world enjoys 96% of the wealth that is in the world is because this 1% created it! They created the world that they choose to live their life by knowing that they have the choice to do so. They created the 96% of the wealth by focusing on creation instead of competition.

Now how does this 1% of the population do so? The 1% of the population did something the 99% of the population didn’t do. They have faith in their vision to create and once they do so they then tap into the infinite source of intelligent that is all knowing and the universe response by giving them back the opportunity of manifestation in accordance to their level of faith. The universe is like an echo of your emotion; what ever you shout out it will response to you with amplifying results.

You too have the capability that the 1% has as we all are human. The reason why majority live their life with un satisfaction is because they choose to see lack in their daily life (physical), do not like to think (mental) and they do not believe that they are a spiritual (soul) being having a physical experience and by doing so they totally disconnect themselves from this infinite source of intelligent that some call GOD, Higher Self, The Unified Field, The Zero Point Energy, Thinking Substance, Infinite Intelligent etc. Do you know that this infinite source of intelligent is proven scientifically and 1 cubic meter of it is enough to vaporize the entire ocean of our earth and we came from it! So if we are from the source we have the source within! And that’s our Soul (Soul = Consciousness + Energy).

How does one goes back to the source? Ask and you shall receive, seek and you shall find, knock and it will be open unto you. Every process of great discovery start from asking questions and the moment you ask a question you already have the answer within! That’s the law of polarity and in good there is bad and in light there is darkness. Our universe is form from the tension of two extremes from a consciousness that is once in oneness and harmony.

Ask and you will receive is indeed very true. But we must know how to do so you see. A lot of people ask and then try to answer the question by themselves straight away. If we do so we are indirectly telling the universe that “Hey dude up there, is ok I will figure out myself the answers” and the universe will response by saying “Your wish is my command” and this is very interesting as this way of asking is not practice by many people but it is practice often by the 1% of the individual; they knew.

First you have to know what is it that you really want and majority of people have difficulties in wanting what they want because they just don’t know how the things that they want is going to come and once they do so they are cutting away themselves from this infinite source of supply; that’s the feeling of lack instead of abundance.

Now once you have known what you want you have to find out why is it that you want the things that you want? Is it going to bring you to greater happiness for you, your friends, your family or the world? We want something not because we actually want that thing but we want to feel the experience in association with having that thing. So knowing the feeling that you want to experience is very important and once you feel it, hold that feeling in your heart and soul and feel it every moment and I can guarantee you that it will be part of your physical experience very soon.

But there is a catch; you can’t crave for the things that you want. Lots of people find it much easier to attract something small according to their scale and find it harder to attract something big. Now when they want to attract something they think is small they already know that they are going to get it and therefore they ask and it just come. As easy as that, but when they are trying to attract something big they are always hoping it to manifest and they are attach in “wanting it to manifest” and if their state of mind is in the process of waiting when the big things that they want is going to manifest they will always be waiting for it in the physical plane because that’s the signal that they are sending to the universe “when is it going to manifest” and that is what they are going to experience in the physical plane of existence.

We have to see things as just things; none are big or small, hard or easy and have 100% faith that you already have it and start feeling the experience of already having the things that you want. Oh, there is one more part and this is a tricky one because most of the time we will always be curious of how the universe is going to give us, from whom, by when, in what ways etc. Now if we are trying to do so we are again telling the universe that we know the ways, when, in what ways and so on. The fact is that the universe will allocate to us in the shortest, fastest, most efficient and most harmonious way. The how’s it comes about is totally out of our expectation but it will come.

So after you ask then let go and have 100% faith that it’s yours and feel that feeling of having it every moment and the universe will do its part to bring you your experience in the physical plane. You do not need to ask a lot of time because this very action is a sign of disbelieve. When you place an order with the restaurant you just need to place the order once and the food and drinks will be serve to you when it’s ready.

There is something amazing here about the universe and that is it will always give you challenges and basically the challenges that the universe allocate to all individual is nothing but the teaching of how to transform your extreme feelings to harmonious feelings and it can be in all type of physical form. The belief of no pain no gain throughout mankind is actually a delusion. The origin of the universe is peace and therefore the universe will also want us to learn through peace. We will learn more when we are more relax and harmony because a relax mind is the most powerful mind. So if you have the belief that we need to go through hardship in order to learn something please erase that from your belief system as it is not true. I am sure you want to associate a positive experience to something great that you have learned instead a negative one.

Is your current action, friends and environment in harmonious with your vision?
A lot of time when there is change there will be resistance and the reason for that is attachment. All of us are attached to our very self and everything around us. The 1% of the population knew this very well and I can tell you that they have very less attachments for the reason that their vision is so clear that the seemingly sound of resistance are just merely background sound. The 1% knows when to let go and the embrace change. Now when you improve, you directly change the frequency of your vibration. Everything is made out of energy and energy vibrates in different level of vibration. When you do so you will start to feel and see things differently. The universe will show you what need to change in order for you to reach the destination that you have “booked” with the universe.

This is the hardest part for all human being due to our nature of self and that is attachment. Have you every seen a snake changes its skin? When the body of the snake kept expending and the old skin is no longer able to fit the body and it requires a new skin. It’s the same with us! The belongings that we have currently is the result of our past and if we become greater then who we use to be, those things that we use to attached with will leave us too just like the snake skin and it is this moment that is challenging to an individual. The way we see things, do things, our beliefs, our friends, our car, our house etc will change and most of the individual just can’t make the leap because they are hold back by the things that they are attached to.

We got to learn to let go and it’s really a cultural shock to certain individual. Your girl friend or boy friend might leave you or you have to leave them because the lifestyle is starting to change and the frequency just doesn’t match any more. Sometimes your best client leave you and it might seems like you are losing something but the fact is that the universe is preparing something greater for you or the other party. Learning to let go is vital to ensure that we continue to grow. Now I am not asking you to let a situation be and not do anything about it. You still need to do your best to work on a situation with the right intention and once if you have tried your best and the outcome isn’t what you expected but you did your best then I would suggest that you have to let go of it and move on.

Let the power of your intention, vision and the universe guide you through and have full faith and gratitude towards everything that happen to you and everyone that have be with you now and before and when you do so, your life will be a journey that you will be happy about. You will be always peaceful and bliss and you will live a life that the other will want to follow.

Now you know how exactly it works. If it is what you are looking for and you feel good about it do make a decision to apply it to your daily life. We can’t improve ourselves until we make up our mind to do so. Be conscious of your experience and emotion in every single moment and observe its true nature and you will see the law of cause and effect working all the time.

Spend time with yourself and spend some time with nature and when you do so you will be one with the infinite source and your life will start to change. Embrace it and not to be afraid of it and you will live the live of abundance in all area of your being.

I can only share this with you; you have to walk it yourself and when you are walking the right path do show the path to those that are seeking for it just like how you came in touch with the path.

Critical Turning Point

It's in the middle of the night and I am still awake writing this article and before that I had just wrote an email to one of my customer OYY. When I look at the blog I had realize that it has been exactly 5 months that I didn't update this blog.

WOW, time really flies. Well throughout the 5 months we are busy enhancing our CMS system and also transferring our web hosting from plesk to the normal hosting. This is done by our lead programmer Alfred.

As for the marketing side we have been thinking very creative to come out with an idea that can easily convert a leads into customers. We had plan to use the reseller system initially but the thing is that if we are not seen to have a branding presence in the market the reseller might not be interested and also the feature of the CMS need to be enhance. We do have a few resellers in hand that are planning to sell our product. But the sales are very slow.

At one point I was thinking and thinking and came out with the idea of name card marketing. In order for a company to get to know our services, we have to get a chance to show them what we have and that every company will need to have name card. This idea has been document down by Mei Chien our partner in systems. She is the one that is going to play a very strong part to take off DESIT SOLUTIONS towards another level of success. There has been always lots of compliment from our customers that our name card design is very nice and the quality is far better then what the market have and the price is extremely reasonable. Our offer packages are as follows:

Name Card Marketing:

- Quality 4 color Offset Printing
- Front and back printing on 210g art card
- Matt lamination on both sides
- Worldwide exposure of your name card through our website
- 300 pieces

Only RM100

This time I am going to advertise on distributed media and news paper directory. This point mark a very crucial point in our business history as the economical situation around is not so encouraging and there has been some cash flow issue. No matter what this has to be successful!